The word "permanent" is something of a misnomer in this context, as all piercings can be removed at will and the holes left behind will shrink until they are barely visible. It can be argued that all piercings are erotic in that if you like piercings, people who have them will become attractive to you just for that reason. However some placements are more erotic than others for the wearer, particularly nipple, clitoris and penis. These areas will become highly sensitised by piercing and some women with clitoral piercings report being able to reach orgasm when they were previously unable to. Tongue piercings can also be erotic, they are reputed to give unsurpassed oral sex.
Obviously, it will hurt. The intensity of pain will vary from piercing to piercing but it will always be very brief. Most people experience an endorphin rush or "high" which comes on shortly after the needle goes through and can last for a considerable time, maybe several days, so the act of getting pierced can be a reward in itself.
Choose your piercer carefully. Ask around for recommendations, and always visit the shop and ask questions before committing yourself. Check that the piercing room is scrupulously clean, and that the piercer wears gloves, and that all equipment to be used has been autoclaved. Insist on a single-use needle, which should be kept in it's sterile packaging until the last minute and should be opened in front of you. For any body piercing, the jewellery must be a minimum of 1.6mm thick and the needle should be the same guage. The piercer should take a helpful and reassuring attitude, and should advise you on expected healing times, and be prepared to offer an aftercare service in the event of any problems.
All permanent piercings will require twice-daily cleaning and rotating
during the healing period. My personal recipe for this is a warm salt bath,
to which a dash of Savlon or other antiseptic has been added. After a good
soak, gently clean off any "crusties" that are stuck to the jewellery and
turn the jewellery to work the cleaning solution all the way through, then
repeat the proceedure with plain water. As a finishing touch I always apply
tea-tree oil. Different people have different healing rates, but a general
rule of thumb is that the deeper the piercing, the longer it will take.
Popular Erotic Piercings
This is by no means an exhaustive list, there are many piercings available
which have not been included here, these are just the ones that are most
commonly sought for sexual reasons. For more detailed information on these
and all other piercings, please refer to the rec.arts.bodyart FAQs
Healing time 3 to 12 months or longer. One of the more painful piercings, but also one of the more rewarding, most people reporting greatly increased sensitivity and a tremendous boost to their confidence. Nipples can be pierced either horizontally or vertically, with the horizontal placement being the most popular, and there is a large range of different jewellery styles that are suitable for this piercing. Nipple piercings are quite prone to infection, often because people mistakenly think they must be healed by now and start playing with them and switching jewellery before they are ready. Nipples can and frequently do take a *very* long time to settle down properly, only once the jewellery turns easily within the piercing and the piercing i