Ahhh! the sensuality of the silky smooth firmness, warmth and heady aroma of a Domme's thighs clamped tightly around your body or face. Her control, your sumbissiveness, the temptation, the desire, the reward of her closeness for your obedience to her command to wait, to do nothing until she allows it. Slim or thunderous, firm or quivering, a glimpse of thigh above stocking or boot top is enough to arouse many a male or fem sub. When they are together the exploration of your eyes along the dark valley between them leads to a temple of ecstasy. When parted their invitation or open yet frustratingly forbidden portal promises the ultimate prize for your total loyalty and compliance. If you are lucky!
For the Dom/me the sensitivity, the closeness to sites of even greater sensitivity, the spacious canvas on which to trace out the evidence of their skill, all beckon to making use of the tender yet resiliant backs and inners or tougher, challenging fronts and outers of a sub's thighs. And so many ways to use them for the delight of both, the sizzling of candle wax, the sharp sting and etched lines of the cane, the slap and resulting glow from the flogger in contact with trembling yet achingly willing flesh. All mixed with the sharp intake of breath or gentle moans of the sub which convey their tormented appreciation.
- Below the waist and openly waiting a submissive's thighs cry out for electro-play. The muscles will pulse delightfully to the beat of exercise pads, the nerves will jangle to the buzz of a TENS, the skin will tingle to a violet wand. Eyes wide and forcing back a squeal the sub can safely delight in the effects of electro play, especially to the inner and backs of their thighs, while the Dom/me delights in the reaction they are causing.
Provided they are in good condition and you know your chosen instruments, the thighs offer one of the most satisfying and safest play areas for electrical toys.
- Flogging, caning, whipping and spanking are all effective and delightful on the thighs. The harder muscles on the front and outer areas act as veritable anvils under the flesh causing these areas to bruise more easily on some people. The backs can usually take considerable punishment and the inners, though more difficult to get at, are often so sensitive that it doesn't take many or hard lashes to have them burning and the sub writhing under each stroke. The ample blood supply in the thighs causes them to redden to a gorgeous glow under most forms of CP, but in some subs they mark and bruise easily which may not be permissable if the sub participates in sports or the femsub is required to wear short skirts.
Before CP play on any part of the legs, check with your sub to make sure that they do not have any history of blood clots or varicose veins in the legs. When varicose the walls of the vein become thin and susceptible to damage so you should avoid flagellation of the legs in these cases. Bondage of the legs is then not a good idea either and CP on legs which are tied just amplifies the chances of injury.
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Piercing can be very decorative on thighs since you have such a stretch of skin on which to work. Deep piercing is unnecessary and unusual here but only especially dangerous in the circumstances referred to in the next paragraph.
As always you must use sterile procedure when piercing in this area. The only other thing to beware of is the major artery that runs down the inside of the thigh. Provided your piercing is decorative and shallow you shouldn't encounter any problems but beware when piercing on the inner thigh of a very slightly built sub.
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- One step down from piercing but almost as intense is clamping. the backs and inners of thighs are always popular tagets for clamping because of the large surface area available. Lines of clamps parallel to the line of the thigh are effective. Knocking the pegs off with a long flexible whip is especially piquant for the sub, because of the temptation for the Dom/me and consequences for them of that faint yet imminent possibility of the whip striking just a little bit higher and more central than the sub expected it to be aimed.
Clamps on the thighs are often a source of pleasure and rarely a source of any problems. Just don't leave them on too long.
Wax play on the inner thigh has lots to recommend it. The reaction gained from the sub, to the interminable line of burning drips drawing nearer and nearer to their most sensitive bits, being one of them. Couple this with waving the flame just close enough to the genitals for the sub to feel its heat and the knowledge of what else the candle might be used for once it is extinguished and you have an area open for as much mind play as physical stimualtion.
Candles, especially coloured candles, melt at differing temperatures. Test the ones you will use on your sub by dripping the wax onto your forearm and adjust the height of the drop until you reach the right temperature. Remember that a rapid build up of wax on the same point seals in the heat and may cause a more serious burn than you intended.
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- A few final sources of fun around the thighs are plucking, stroking, tickling, and massage. Even many femsubs have enough light hairs on their thighs for a Dom/me to indulge in a little pick and pluck activity. These forms of sensation play offer delightful variations to the menu of BDSM activity.
